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i was a kid who was over weight and not goodlooking,i went to girls school, all the cool girls made fun of me..so i started dieting i got little better(pretty) and i had a group of friends, we were really close after that most of my friends went somewhere to school,years pass by and now i am fully grown up in to a beautiful girl..i am happy in my life.i got better in looks because of my youth years, now i study in london,when i go back to my home town and see all the girls i studied with,they dont greet me they dont even smile they just stare or gossip about me….they gossip around if i have any boyfriend or if i am married..things are irrating me all my old friends dont want to talk to me…its so sick whats the meaning for this? was it better if i was just like my teen years where i wasnt goodlooking and i had some decent friends? i see all of this girls talking to eachother on facebook but they dont talk to me..i dont know what to do?
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What Can I Do? I Want To Be Ugly Again:(asap?
Written on:August 27, 2009
In category: Celebrities Gossip
Tags:Againasap , cool girls , dont , Gossip , study in london , Ugly , Want , What
Tags:Againasap , cool girls , dont , Gossip , study in london , Ugly , Want , What
Who cares about them? Everybody moves on. I don’t speak much anymore to my friends from school, they still laugh about the same jokes they did then and when I’m with them I feel like they are still 16, with me at my correct age (24)..
On the other hand, I do feel that the world of “being pretty” is very shallow. Watch Mean Girls, you’ll see what I mean! Girls are also always bitchy when people change.
My advice, get a part-time job to tide you over. You’ll meet more people with potential of becomming friends, you’ll earn some money, and you won’t spend as much time being gossipped about by your old friends.
Make new friends and don’t go back
stuff them they are not friends, make new ones!
It’s jealousy. You went and did something whereas they didn’t. I’m from a small midlands town and friends back there were all “I bet you think you’re posh now you live in London”
Bizarre attitude some people have when you do something different to the rest of the sheep.
True friends will see the real you. The you inside your soul and heart. The outside of you may be beautiful, but remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder and one persons beauty is not the same as another persons.
Be happy in your own body and with who you are. Find friends who care about the true you…
Take care
i think they’re jealous!
you’re making something of yourself & that the ugly duckling they knew has blossomed into a beautiful swan.
it’s their problem.
don’t make it yours
you don’t need people that behave like this, they’re not your friends.
find some nice people.
who cares about the old friends? Why don’t you make some new ones?
who cares about them?
do you really care?
People change, people move on. You’ll have to deal with it. Make new friends in London. If they don’t want to know you- they’re not worth it.
Get some actual friends, it seems like you are looking for friendship from the wrong sort of people; those who talk about you behind your back and don’t interact with you are not friends. It has nothing to do with how ugly you are, you need to realise that and eat some beans, hold your chin up and get on with life. F*ck them!
they don’t deserve to be your friends as friendship should not be about what you look like from the outside but if you get along and to know that you have someone that you can trust and confined in no matter what.
maybe that they are jealous of you, your better of without them.
it could be your personality in stead of your looks…..
thought of that yet?
move on huny!! don’t lose anymore sleep about them… not worth it!
they are obviously not your friends….make new ones
ever heard of jealousy?
dont change yourself and stop caring so much about others times move on and you will make new friends who respect you, you will actually lose respect chasing old ‘friends’ as they will claim your just being fake.
finish your studies, be successful in your career, find a loving Husband, have kids, experience life and leave the losers to envy/***** for the rest of there lives.x
They are jealous that you developed in to something they will never be – beautiful. ignore them.you have a new life now.you dont need them if they are so pigheaded as it sounds.
There just jealous ,my 12 yr old daughter is beautiful with long blonde hair to her waist ,and she has girls who don’t want to now her and its only down to her looks.Walk past them with a big smile on your face and let them now how happy you are and find some new mates ,you have done well to lose your weight good on ya and good luck ,don’t let them win.
You say several times that the people who you studied with and who you used to see a lot are your friends. But ask yourself are people who can easily give up on a person just because they have bettered themselves can these people still be classed as friends.
A friend to me is someone who likes you for you, regardless of weight or looks, and anyone who can be that shallow and is prepared to abandon a friendship because of this is really not worth knowing.
It says now that you are studying in London my advice is o find some new friends and not worry about those so called “friends” back in your home town, and they will see that you have moved on with your life completely and without the need for shallow people.
You should never have to change yourself to please others
They will be jelous and miffed, probably. Just hold on to the good friends you have and never mind the catty ones. And be proud of yourself for making your life better!
You know what girls can be like…. total cows, and one well known fact is that if they are jelous they will ***** and gossip!
They most definately are not worthy of being your friend, go out and get yourself some new ones, who luv u for being u, the beautiful person you have turned into.
Gud luk honey x
people like that arent your real friends. get talking to new people and find some decent ones. my best friends love me for what i am- even tho im a pain in the bum most of the time x
go and make new friends, still try and keep in touch with them but there no reason to get up set as people change over time, some in a good way but some in a bad.
im sure your beautiful inside and out.
they cant be your true friends if there treating u like this, meet someone new that likes you for you and not your looks
Just dont stop being yourself….. its pure and its kind, dont forget that and you will always be happy.
Although you feel tension from your so called ‘friends’ you are still you. there are many many people in the world and just a few will turn out to be your ‘true friend’. As you get older you will know who they are.
see ya soon !! xx
don’t give a thought of what people think of you.
Who cares if those girls talk about you.
They’re probably really jealous anyway.
Dont go making yourself ugly just to please other people.
What makes you happy? Looking pretty? (it has to be, since you lost all that weight, congratulations on that =]) or is it friends? Because if you desperately want to get your old friends back, aka those who make fun of you right now, then they arent your friends.
Plus if they stare or gossip about you, like my friend once told me, they’re just jealous or want to be you. They’re getting to you and making you feel bad so that you’d want to look ugly again.
Dont make yourself look ugly. It’s stupid
and be happy
All you know, those girls want to be you =]